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Tales from the Other Side


So what IS “Tales from the other side?” Well, most everyone in school at least has days when they want to be ‘done’ and ‘in the real world.’ “Tales” is a section where former students of Grace shed some light on what the ‘other side’ of life is really like. All real people. All real stuff from the “Real World.”

Keep stopping by – we’ll add to what’s here and switch it around once in a while to include as many ‘former students’ as we get stuff from.



 


Tara Griner is a freshman at the University of Arkansas at Fayetteville. Tara was active in Real World for several years and two youth pastors. She attended Northside, nailed the grades and enjoyed doing drama. Tara also served on the junior high staff during her senior year. She still attends Grace regularly, but also enjoys hanging out at The Grove when she’s staying the weekend in Fayetteville. She’s emailed several times lately. Here’s a few samples of life on the ‘other side’ for her.

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…about her spiritual life
“So I've been incredibly busy lately, but I really am the happiest I've been in a really long time. Things just seem to be working out...in a lot of different ways. The more the semester progressed, the more I started getting concerned with the whole fact that I didn't have any idea what I wanted to do with the rest of my life and every time someone asked me what my major was it was worse.

Then a couple weeks ago I started seeing what my spiritual challenge for the moment was...I need to find more time to be still with God. Time to just stop and listen. I have problems with that. I try really hard to make time for reading and such...but it's just sitting still and talking and then stopping to listen that I struggle with. I feel unproductive. Anyway...that's definitely what I'm supposed to be working on right now. It was amazing how clear that became to me...it was the topic of conversation between me and Andrew for almost a week straight and he really challenged me to start stopping more. Then it was what we talked about in my small group this week, as well as tonight at church, just in case it wasn't clear enough the first few times.”

…about career choices
So through some listening and then some talking and some more listening...and then consulting with somewhat responsible individuals I think I've come to my conclusion. I want to be some sort of counselor. I don't have all the details worked out, yet...but I know they'll come in the right time. I don't want to do the school counselor thing, really. More families...and possibly kids. I'm not exactly sure where this is going to take place...but the thing I've really been considering lately is that the only place I can see myself working is in a Church setting. I don't know for sure...like I said, it'll all come in time. That's just the cloudy idea I have going at this point. There are a lot of different circumstances that have lined up to make me feel that way. I see myself fitting in that type of work really well.

The money is a little different than it would be if I followed my dad's whole med school thing. I just don't think that's for me. It's just not a huge concern for me. The theory I go with is that if you do what you like the money will come in time...I don't worry about that generally as far as the future is concerned. So I did discuss all this with my dad and he was amazingly okay with it. He has become really supportive and incredibly trusting in my judgment lately. He really couldn't be a better dad. I'm really, really thankful for him...every day.



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